Archive for October, 2010

Best Anal Sex Advice

Thursday, October 14th, 2010

Anal sex can be frightening for some at first. It is really enjoyable though when it’s done correctly. This isn’t an act that people can just one day decide to try. It does take preparation and some common sense in order to be fun. Here’s some of the best advice you can find regarding anal sex.

Practice First

It’s not a bad idea to start this solo before introducing a partner. This will allow you to take your time and find what you do and don’t enjoy. It will also acclimate you to the feelings, which can be a little strange at first.

Understand Safety

Just like with any sexual act, safety should be taken in to consideration. Aside from the normal safety stuff with condoms, there are a few additional things you should know about anal sex. Unlike vaginal sex, anal sex won’t produce any natural lubrication. You need to supplement with a good quality lube, and replenish this often. You also need to pay close attention to your body. It’s easy to tear the tissue inside the anus without feeling pain immediately. It’s vital that your partner goes slow and listens to you. Also know that anything that has been used in that area should not then be used near the vagina or mouth. Even if you don’t see fecal matter contaminating such as harmful bacteria can still be present.

Don’t Force It

Anal sex in real life is nothing like anal sex in porn. You can’t force anything in to the anus without causing discomfort, and possibly damage. Instead, you should slowly work and allow the anus to open naturally. Never force it.

Swinging as a Crossdresser

Thursday, October 7th, 2010

If you are swinging as a crossdresser then you may find that it is a bit more difficult for you starting out. These are 2 very important things that you are going to have to be comfortable with before you can get truly established on the scene of both. Most swingers clubs will not care if somebody comes in dressed as the opposite sex. However, some private swinger’s meetings may not think very highly of a cross dresser for whatever reason. It is important that you are able to be accepted in both communities.

Cross Dressing

If you are a cross dresser then it is a good idea to let those close to you in the swinger’s circle know. This way, should they invite you to any of swinger’s meetings they will be able to let others know ahead of time. Many swingers do not pass any judgment on those that wish to cross dress. However, judgment can be found anywhere and there may be some people that you run into in swinger’s clubs, Irish Swingers Parties or meetings that do not approve.

Swinging

Most of the time, cross dressing is not something that will be an issue with swingers. Most of the time, you will not have your clothes on for long periods of time so it is not something that will come up. A lot of swingers are completely open minded when it comes to other things that can bring sexual satisfaction to other people. Just make sure that you as well as those around you feel comfortable so that you can all have a good time.